There is a lot of gray area though. Sometimes a relationship based on using each other can work exceptionally well as long as you're both getting what you want. To be honest I've had better experiences (from a mental health standpoint) with that sort of relationship than I've had with the kind where you're insanely crazy about each other and dream of being together forever. I've been the cute couple that seem so good together but will go home after the party to fight, fuck and hate each other. I've been the guy that didn't give a shit that a bunch of guys were hitting on my girlfriend but then spent all the next day being lazy and watching movies with her. You never can tell what works so why do we all seem so insistent on analyzing everyone's relationship when it's none of our fucking business? It's wrong, we'll never know what its like between those two people.They have their own desires, wants and rules that are completely independent of our personal moral codes.
I'm still watching Larry King Live and the infamous Ted Haggard is on with his wife. Despite this rant I still can't help wondering what their relationship must be like. Human beings are so terribly nosy, we can't help it.
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